Wednesday, November 8, 2017


I think I may be closer to renunciation. I need to have a long discussion with the kids. Those of you who know me know that this has been on my mind for several years. It comes in waves.
That said, I'm still an American resident overseas and a member of AARO and I still support AARO and think it is a good association. I encourage Americans residing overseas, or thinking of it, to become members of AARO. I especially encourage young adults, even those Americans born abroad to be become members.
To take my mind off such matters, I've been knitting. My aim is to reduce the stash of yarn I have. Some of it has been stashed since we moved to this house in 1985. Some, most, is more recent because I got over-enthusiastic in my purchases since bringing my machine out of hibernation. I've since added more machines, but I only work on one project at a time.
On Sunday morning, before going out, I experimented and made a poppy. I based it on Safia Addnan's YouTube demonstration of a five-petal flower. It only took a few minutes to make. Of course, in England and other Commonwealth countries, the sale of poppies goes to support veterans and if you can, you should contribute, even if you wear this nice knitted poppy. I wore it the other day and got compliments.
In France, the symbolic flower for WWI is a cornflower, not a poppy. I haven't figured out how to knit that. They don't make such a big thing of it, here. If there is a charity to donate to for this, specifically, I don't know what it is. Here's the story and the poem behind it and in English. Looking at the picture on the wikipedia page, it looks like it could be done: two five petal flowers, where you create slits (cast off and cast on again) to avoid the rolling. One larger than the other. I'll try it out. In the evening, hand-knitting. I'm on socks, again.

Monday, October 23, 2017

Another month, Fall is coming

Fall is coming. It's slowly coming. October has been a remarkably warm month. Certain shrubs are blooming, as are the strawberry plants! It's been sunny and warm. Yesterday, I think we got hit by the tail end of a tropical storm, Brian, for about 15 minutes. It almost blew off the last of the leaves from the tree in front of the house. The trees in the back are still full of leaves. Paul mowed the lawn. He keeps hoping it's the last time until next year, but I think it's not over, yet.
It's a bit of a sad month. A friend from my tech writing days died last Wednesday. Today would have been her 66th birthday. We were born the same year. She had a very rough final year. Her diagnosis for cancer came on her return from summer vacation, last year. I hadn't seen her in years, but started visiting during her chemo. Since I don't hold a job any more, it was relatively easy for me to visit during the day when time just drags on and on. I got to know some places pretty well. Although the care at Hôpital Cochin was kind, the diagnosis (and subsequent treatment) were wrong; the convalescent hospital she was sent to after each chemo session was very nice and I love the neighborhood. (I remember when we were looking for a house, there.) Then she got another doctor to take a look and changed hospital. Hôpital Pompidou is way across Paris from me and it takes more than an hour to get there, even by RER and metro. But it looks like a good place to be, if you have to be in a hospital. This doctor operated, took the tumors out (13 kilos), which bought her some time and much greater comfort. Because he was able to get a better diagnosis, he also changed the chemo, so Spring and Summer were not nearly as horrible as last Fall and Winter. But that was it. After a short stay, again, at Pompidou, she was transferred to a palliative care hospital, still a bit of a trek to get to for me, but I always have a book to read. This Hôpital Cognac Jay, in the 15th, is, to me, extraordinary. It does not change the outcome, but the staff, both medical and para-medical are wonderful. The setting is not bad, either. There are two buildings with a big garden between them and plenty of areas to sit and chat. After all, some patients are mobile and being able to get outside is nice. As I said, earlier, the weather has been gorgeous. I am sad to lose a friend, glad that through visiting her I was able to make a new friend and reconnect with others, and relieved that she is no longer suffering. She was so frustrated during my last visit to her, a week before she died, unable to really communicate clearly.
I've become really lazy on the AARO front. I was discouraged about the US tax and banking issues; I don't seem to care anymore. I want out.

Monday, September 18, 2017

Settling down for Fall

We had a busy summer, after my last letter. We spent a few days with Emma and Gabriel and then met up with Claire's family for lunch. That was an interesting drive. We left Najac early in the morning and drove through the countryside to get on to the autoroute to Bordeaux. I had suggested getting off before Bordeaux and getting back on country roads to the supermarket/shopping center where we were meeting them but that got nixed. We hit the circular road at Bordeaux at the same time as vacationers coming up the Atlantic coast and from the Pyrénées also hit it. We were, theoretically, 7 km. from our destination, but it took an hour. No worries; we were still on time for lunch.
After lunch, we took off with A..., for our two-week holiday with her. We had a very nice bungalow setup at the Belambra club at La Palmyre, a village that is part of Mathes, just north of Royan, on the peninsula. These clubs are patterned after the original Club Med. There are clubs for 3 or 4 age groups of kids; the kids can go for half days, full days, stay with the club for lunch, or not go at all.
That first week, A... went in the morning on Monday and we picked her up at lunch time to meet our old friends, les Chau...., who were at another club-type place south of Royan with their granddaughter E.... We met at the La Coubre lighthouse. Paul and K... didn't even try to climb up the stairs of the lighthouse. I got up maybe 100 but couldn't go any farther; the Nordic walk in the morning had wiped me out. M... and the girls went all the way up and had a glorious view of the beaches, Royan in the distance and the forest. There was a food truck right there, so we had a long, leisurely lunch before heading off to the beach. It was a hot, hot day, but the section of beach we were on was not densely occupied. It reminded me of Barnegat Light, with the lighthouse in the distance. The girls (A... is 8 and E... is 10) got along very well. E... is Franco-German and A... is Franco-British, so they have French in common and after a bit of hesitation on A...'s part, they were chattering away. Many years ago, when Claire was just a bit older than A..., we met the Chau.... at a smaller version of these family vacation clubs. Next year, we shall try to arrange to be at the same one at the same time, but the German and British school holiday schedules are not at all in sync. Driving along beaches in France is horrible, whether it be the Mediterranean or the Atlantic coast. It had taken us an hour to drive less than 10 km. to the lighthouse and it had taken them 2 hours. Our drive back was quick, but theirs was even longer as they hit the Royan traffic.
Tuesday, it was rainy and we went to visit the Louis XIV rope factory, La Corderie Royale, in Rochefort. Rochefort, inland on the Charente river, but deep enough for 17th century ships, was the ship-building capital of France. It was natural that they would want to make the ropes for the ships, there, too. The building, however, is 300 meters long and is on marshy ground, so it needed some buttresses after a while -- not the kind on Gothic churches, but buttresses nonetheless. The building was left to ruin after ships became steam powered and the German army burned it when they left Rochefort at the end of WWII. In the 1960s, the city bought the ruin from the government and rebuilt it. They did an excellent job. They've now centered a whole tourist industry around it.  The building is 300 meters long because the ropes needed to be 200 meters and when you wind the rope, the total length shrinks by 1/3. The permanent exhibit is interesting and takes you from preparing the hemp fiber, spinning, and finally, winding the rope to the different thicknesses required. There's a fine restaurant, where we had lunch, and a well-stocked bookshop on all things concerning navigation and more.
After lunch, we walked over to see the Hermione, a replica of the ship that LaFayette sailed to America to help the Revolution. It wasn't a guided tour, but there were a few members of the crew around talking to the tourists. It's well worth the visit. I think the story of building this replica and the passion the volunteers put into it are more interesting than the actual ship. They manage to sail it every so often for big occasions; they have a wall of pictures. Coming right after the visit to the rope factory, I took great interest in all the ropes on the ship -- different thicknesses, tarred, not tarred, ...
The next day was a day at the Palmyre zoo, one of the major zoos in France. One of the advantages of being in a big club was having the little tourist train that came and picked us up in the morning. The conductor sold us our zoo entries, so when he dropped us off, we didn't have to wait in line at the ticket counter. The zoo has a lot of births; the major one this year was a baby giraffe. He's very cute. The zoo was crowded, as expected, perhaps too crowded. You start following the circuit and then can't get back to the amphitheaters for the shows. It probably wouldn't have mattered if we had gotten back in time, because I bet all the seats were taken up well before show time. One thing that angered me was that they sold bags of popcorn on the premises. I was always taught not to feed the animals, that they had their own diets and were fed accordingly. Well, people were feeding popcorn to the fish, the ducks, the zebras, the elephants, .... It was pitiful.
Finally, on Thursday, A... got to spend a day at the club, which she really enjoyed. In the evening, the kids put on a show. Fun was had by all. Friday, more of the same, without the show. Every evening, before dinner, there was a game time at the bar which we did not participate in -- not really our thing. After my Monday morning Nordic walk, I could hardly walk at all, so I did not participate in other exercise activities. We played Yams (Yahtzee) every evening and pétanque. There was a very nice, big, warm swimming pool and I had an interesting book to read.
Saturday, Louis and his family arrived nearby, south of us, but still north of Royan (Again, nearby is a relative term on the coast; it took 45 minutes to get there.) They were in an apartment in a town that has its own little beach, but not really on the ocean, more inland. Still, it was salt water and affected by tides. The cousins were excited to see one another and to play on the beach. We all had dinner together at a beach side restaurant. We invited S... to come and spend the night with us in the extra bed in A...'s room, but he declined. Another day, we spent some time on the beach with them; they came over to our place for dinner (and another try at the sleep--over invitation); we took a family boat ride on the Seudre river. Paul and I did a hike in the oyster-raising area along the Seudre and ate lots of oysters. We also visited Saintes, which was the terminus of the via Appia from Lyon. There is a very big Roman amphitheater and an Arc de Triomphe from then. And a medieval Abbaye aux Dames from the late Middle Ages (pre-Gothic). We also spent a day at the beach at the Coubre Lighthouse. Even in the area under lifeguard surveillance, it wasn't crowded.

 We stopped for a few days in Nogent before taking A... back to England for her birthday and the start of a new school year.

Saturday, August 5, 2017

Plum jelly, or something else

The plum tree is producing small plums this year. I find them a bit too tart for just plain eating, so Paul asked me to make an open pie (tarte) with the first batch he collected. That was disastrous. It was too much work to get the pits out, so I warned him I was putting the plums on, whole, and he'd just have to watch out for pits. I didn't want to put too much sugar on it. I forgot to put crushed almonds to absorb the liquid. I forgot to smear egg white over the crust before putting the plums on it. Plums are full of water and, well, so was the pie. Really, we had stewed plums in a pie shell.
The next batch went into what started out to be jam, but, again, I was lazy and didn't feel like pitting all those little plums. I cooked the plums and sugar together; the brew thickened; I skimmed the froth; I put the plums through a sieve to get the stones out. All  went well. The brew was looking more like a thick jelly, though. It coated the spoon, indicating the right thickness to put it into the jars. The next morning, I tipped one of the jars and, well, it's not a thin syrup, but it's not a thick jam or jelly, either. It's more the consistency of what the French call a "coulis". I have looked through the online dictionaries and it seems we haven't come up with a better term in English. I can imagine it over cheesecake. I used it on vanilla ice cream, yesterday. Very nice.